Just listen
I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our  36  , and especially if it’s given from the 37 . When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but 38 them. Just take them  39 . Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than  40 it.
One of my patients told me that when she 41  to tell her story, people often  42  to tell her that they had once had something just like what happened to her. Subtly, her pain became a story about themselves.   43  she stopped talking to most people. It was just too 44 . We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the 45  of attention to ourselves. But when we listen, they know we care.
I have ever learned to 46  to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the tissues(紙巾)  47 I realized that passing a person a tissue may be just another way to shut them  48 , to take them out of their  49 of sadness and pain. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there 50  them.
This 51  thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been  52  since I was very young at school. I thought people listened only because they were too  53 to speak or did not know the answer. A loving silence often has far more 54  to connect than the most well-intentioned(善意的) 55 .

【小題1】
A．introductionB．instructionC．a(chǎn)ttentionD．relaxation
【小題2】
A．headB．memoryC．mindD．heart
【小題3】
A．talk toB．listen toC．object to(反對(duì))D．stick to(堅(jiān)持)
【小題4】
A．in B．upC．offD．a(chǎn)way
【小題5】
A．denying(否認(rèn))B．rememberingC．questioningD．understanding
【小題6】
A．managedB．triedC．hopedD．expected
【小題7】
A．encouragedB．interruptedC．discouragedD．urged
【小題8】
A．EventuallyB．ImmediatelyC．CompletelyD．Especially
【小題9】
A．impoliteB．meaninglessC．lonelyD．selfish
【小題10】
A．middleB．focusC．centerD．choice
【小題11】
A．respondB．compareC．linkD．regret
【小題12】
A．unlessB．ifC．untilD．when
【小題13】
A．downB．a(chǎn)wayC．inD．off
【小題14】
A．experimentB．mixtureC．judgmentD．experience
【小題15】
A．withB．a(chǎn)gainstC．forD．a(chǎn)mong
【小題16】
A．complex(費(fèi)解的)B．simpleC．singleD．complicated(復(fù)雜的)
【小題17】
A．mentionedB．publishedC．taughtD．proved
【小題18】
A．shyB．greedyC．a(chǎn)ctiveD．proud
【小題19】
A．strengthB．energyC．powerD．force
【小題20】
A．gesturesB．praiseC．criticismD．words


【小題1】C
【小題2】D
【小題3】B
【小題4】A
【小題5】D
【小題6】B
【小題7】B
【小題8】A
【小題9】C
【小題10】B
【小題11】A
【小題12】C
【小題13】A
【小題14】D
【小題15】A
【小題16】B
【小題17】C
【小題18】A
【小題19】C
【小題20】D

解析試題分析：本文講述了在人與人的交往中，傾聽(tīng)有時(shí)候比語(yǔ)言更有有力，告訴我們要學(xué)會(huì)傾聽(tīng)別人。
【小題1】C 名詞辨析。A介紹B說(shuō)明C注意力D放松；我們能給對(duì)方就是我們的注意力。
【小題2】D 名詞辨析。A頭B記憶C思維D心；尤其是發(fā)自?xún)?nèi)容的對(duì)別人的注意，這樣更可貴。
【小題3】B 短語(yǔ)辨析。A談?wù)揃聽(tīng)C反對(duì)D堅(jiān)持；除了聽(tīng)，別得什么都不需要做。
【小題4】A 固定詞組.take in吸收，理解，欺騙；這里是指我們需要的就是理解對(duì)方。
【小題5】D 動(dòng)詞辨析。A否認(rèn)B記得C詢(xún)問(wèn)D理解；很多時(shí)候關(guān)心比理解更重要。
【小題6】B 動(dòng)詞辨析。A設(shè)法B嘗試C希望D期待；我的一個(gè)病人努力告訴別人他的故事…
【小題7】B 動(dòng)詞辨析。A鼓勵(lì)B打斷C使…泄氣D催促；但是別人經(jīng)常打斷他的話。
【小題8】A 副詞辨析。A最后B立刻C完全地D尤其；最后他什么都不愿意和別人說(shuō)了。
【小題9】C 上下文串聯(lián)。他什么也不愿意和別人說(shuō)了，這樣讓自己很孤單很寂寞。
【小題10】B 名詞辨析。Focus是指焦點(diǎn)；我們把注意力的焦點(diǎn)移到了我們自己的身上了。
【小題11】A 動(dòng)詞辨析。A回應(yīng)B比較C聯(lián)系D遺憾；我曾經(jīng)學(xué)著用聽(tīng)來(lái)回應(yīng)別人。
【小題12】C 連詞辨析。直到那時(shí)我才知道給別人紙巾也是一個(gè)讓別人不要哭的方式之一。
【小題13】A 固定詞組。Shut down閉嘴，這里是指給別人遞了紙巾讓別人不再哭泣。
【小題14】D 名詞辨析。A實(shí)驗(yàn)B混合物C判斷D經(jīng)歷；把他們從他們悲慘難受的經(jīng)歷中帶出來(lái)。
【小題15】A 介詞辨析。他們會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)我們和他們?cè)谝黄稹ith和…一起。
【小題16】B 形容詞辨析。A費(fèi)解的B簡(jiǎn)單C單個(gè)D復(fù)雜的；這種簡(jiǎn)單的事情并不好學(xué)。
【小題17】C 動(dòng)詞辨析。A提及B印刷C教D證明；這和我小時(shí)候一直被教的事情是相反的。
【小題18】A 形容詞辨析。A害羞B貪婪C積極D自豪；他們可能太害羞或者是不知道答案。
【小題19】C 名詞辨析。A力氣B能源C力量D暴力；有時(shí)候善于的傾聽(tīng)要比語(yǔ)言更有力。
【小題20】D 名詞辨析。A姿態(tài)B表?yè)P(yáng)C批評(píng)D語(yǔ)言；有時(shí)候善于的傾聽(tīng)要比語(yǔ)言更有力。
考點(diǎn)：考查教育類(lèi)短文
點(diǎn)評(píng)：本文講述了傾聽(tīng)的力量，本文主要是測(cè)試學(xué)生綜合運(yùn)用語(yǔ)言的能力，即從語(yǔ)篇的角度綜合測(cè)試閱讀理解能力、詞匯的掌握和對(duì)英語(yǔ)習(xí)慣用語(yǔ)的熟悉程度、以及語(yǔ)法規(guī)則的靈活運(yùn)用�？忌鲱}時(shí)必須時(shí)刻從上下文考慮，部應(yīng)該只看到所添的詞在短語(yǔ)或句子內(nèi)是否可行。因此，在做題時(shí)最好將全文通讀一下，了解了全文的意思以后再作答。

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