9.You know how wonderful you are,and you know that others know how wonderful you are,but what do you do when admiration crosses over the line into jealousy(嫉妒)?For most teens there will come a day when you realize that one of your friends is jealous and that this jealousy is hurting your friendship.When this happens it can seem like there is nothing that you can do,but the good news is that there is.Don't let jealousy spoil your relationships.Deal with it confidently and you might be back to normal much sooner than you think.
It can be hard to walk up to a friend and ask them what the problem is,but if you want to save your friendship you'll have to do just that.Don't approach them and ask why they are jealous of you unless of course you want to appear totally conceited (逞能),just take some time alone with them and let them know that you've been feeling like there's been something coming between you.If they refuse to respond,then use the opportunity to explain how you have been feeling.Chances are that something you say will strike a nerve and your friend will open up as well.
When you figure out what is annoying your friend,ask him or her what (s)he thinks would make the situation better.If,for example,(s)he says that (s)he feels like (s)he doesn't get to spend any time with you because of your being off with your new friends from the swim team then maybe you could invite her along the next time or block off one day a week for just the two of[.Com]you.Remember,though,that whatever solution you decide on should be a compromise(妥協(xié)).Don't limit your own talents or opportunities simply because your friend is unhappy.Try instead to include him or her in your new life and see how that works out.
Even the best of friendships can be ruined by jealousy.This destructive emotion is rarely productive and can turn best friends into worst enemies.Before taking extreme action,chat with your jealous friend to see if the two of you can work out a compromise.If you can't,be prepared to know exactly how far you will go to keep your friend and how far you won't.
33.What does the author intend to tell us in paragraph 2?A
A.How to solve the problem of jealousy.
B.Why we need to solve the problem of jealousy.
C.How to explain your jealousy to your friends.
D.Why it is hard to deal with the problem of jealousy.
34.What can be inferred from the last paragraph?D
A.There's always a solution to solve the problem of jealousy.
B.Jealousy can turn best friends into worst enemies.
C.You should go a long way with your friend to work out a solution
D.You may lose a friend to keep your own gifts,chances or self-development.
35.This passage is mainly intended forC.
A.female readers
B.students
C.teenagers
D.best friends.
分析 青少年朋友會因為嫉妒而使相互間的友誼被破壞,本文著重講述如何處理被朋友嫉妒及處理過程中可能遇到的困難的人際關系的話題.
解答 ADC
33 A 細節(jié)理解題.根據(jù)第二段第二句Don't approach them and ask why they are jealous of you可知這是如何解決妒忌的方法,答案選A.
34 D 推理判斷題:根據(jù)Don't limit your own talents or opportunities simply because your friend is unhappy.得知不要保留自己的天賦、機會、自我發(fā)展以免會失去朋友.D項正確.
35 C 作者意圖題.通讀全文可知,本文的寫作目的是介紹如何處理在青少年之間有嫉妒心朋友的方法.故C項正確.
點評 學生需要認真閱讀原文,把握文章大意,對文章脈絡有整體的了解,能仔細查找文中細節(jié),并能根據(jù)文章內容進行合理的推測判斷.